Today is January 16th, that means it's My Auntie Wanda Lee Wade's Birthday...here she is
First off, she's been gone 8 years already...she passed away in May of 2016. She was only 64
She was not a blood or by marriage relative, she was just a neighbor to Us that was more like Family
IMPORTANT PROLOG: First I want to get this horrible crap out of the way before I talk good about her. I was wondering why Wanda wasn't was going to work for days as her silver Hyundai was still in her drive way. She lived just 2 doors down from My house so it was very convenient for Us
I gave her a wake up call every morning at 5:00 AM for years as she worked at a Nursing Home in Webster Groves and then I'd meet her at her car, shut the door for her and We'd talk for a few minuets before she's have to pull off at 6:00 AM. One day possibly a week later I saw her at her front porch at night and I wanted to hurry up and see her. She wasn't the same silly yet magical Auntie Wanda. Her head had been shaved a bit with a large scar. She had a brain tumor. I was shocked
I tried to talk to her but it just wasn't the same. I had to leave her alone. OK, Well, two or so months have gone by since then. Her fruit sister Barbara tells Us that Wanda passed away in May and We're like what...she's been gone for 2 months and your just now telling Us
My Grandma & Mom couldn't believe this cruel $h!t
Her sister has very little or no emotions and is a waste. She basically ruled Wanda over her house. So many times My Grandma wanted to talk to he rover the phone and Barbara would answer...oh we got company so that meant that Wanda couldn't talk on the fun...We got so tired of that stupid nonsense crap
We've never gotten over that she told Us months later that Wanda died especially Me...I hate her for that
I could complain all day about that #$%^* but I'm not because this is My Auntie Wanda's Birthday
So first how did We meet
Actually My Grandma did. She met Wanda in I believe 1994, 30 years ago this year
It was OVER A WHITE Bunny Rabbit. They saw it running around in the alley and tried to catch it. They couldn't but they bonded soon after and they were girlfriends ever since till their last days
So I would bond with her as well but really not until the 2000s. We talked on the phone all the time. She knew much of what I liked and vise versa. I talked to her about Baseball & Wrestling even though she wasn't into sports. I taught her a bit about Movie Scores and she'd give Me her opinions who'd she liked & didn't which I appreciated that. I especially talked to her about Star Wars, Dinosaurs, Cryptozology & Ufology. I taught her a lot of stuff about that stuff. I believe she saw a UFO and some Cryptids but like so many people she always would never tell Me
We saw many movies together at the show like 10.000 BC, Narina 2, The Mummy 3, Journey to the Center of the Earth, Hellboy 2, Fantastic Four 2, Transformers 1, Iron Man & The Hulk, Star Wars: The Clones Wars Animated Film and more in 2008 which was a HUGE movie year for Me...most of all year last year I was thinking about it's 15th Anniversary and My times with My Auntie Wanda
We did many other things together too but as much as We did together over the years, My most cherished moment with her was when We both went to the St. Louis Science Center together to the Tyrannosaurus Sue exhibit when she was on tour in 2009. This was on the First Day of Spring, 2009 which that very morning is when I saw the Skunk Ape in the Alley Street by the Cemetery (I posted that a long while back in My Cryptozoology Topic with all the details!) so this year marks the 15th Anniversary of this which is hard to believe it's been that darn long
Here's a special pic I made of that special event as I filmed the entire spectacle
As you see in her pictures, she was a large woman, a bit shorter but about the same size of Nia Jax. I like large women so it was something being with her, she sometimes could look really good
We had a deal going on when it came to collecting things. Remember during the Christmas Topic when I said that My Auntie Wanda loved Dollhouses when I saw those Sears Wish Books
Well she was a huge Dollhouse collector. She was always cautious of ordering online so I ordered for her and she'd pay Me back in My bank. She loved Crafts & Genealogy. She did a lot for Me. She'd go to Toy "R" Us & Walmart when I couldn't. She got Me nearly the entire collection of the Fantastic Four movie figures (remember this when I showcase them in My Marvel Topic in the near future!), Star Wars and more. I'd pay her for them but sometimes she'd be like no Brandon, you don't have to pay Me, she wasn't tight or cheap...she got Me the entire collection of Magna-Saurs without Me paying her one cent back because she was so nice and very good
In fact she surprised Me with them and I didn't even know they existed
She did the same with this huge, 2 foot tall, 2 foot wide, nearly 10 pound Dinosaur Book too
I'll never forget one day We were at Walmart and I saw the 1990 Total Recall on DVD in a clearance bin. I regretted not getting it so the next day she went back there and got it for Me...this is how great she was and I would get her little things as gifts for many reasons
I'd come over to her house whenever her darn fruit sister wasn't around and I'd show her My figures, collectibles and play movie scores. She wanted to see My Baseball Card Collection cause was I telling her how awesome the Chase Cards were. She never seen a Baseball Card collection before but I so regret not showing here that
Now she just didn't collected collect Dollhouses, the figures & accessories to go with'em...she was also a Thimble Collector which is a very interesting yet fun hobby. I really never knew about the hobby and how cool it was till she showed Me her massive collection. She had boxes upon boxes filled with'em from all over the country from when she'd travel then she'd show Me her attic...from wall to wall she has big displays on shelves of them. I was totally amazed about this
I don't want to know what her emotionless sister did to it after all of the years that My Auntie Wanda collected them
One day when she wanted Me to order her some Thimbles on eBay, they had some cool Vintage Dinosaur/Prehistoric Animal Thimbles and she was surprised about them. I'm not sure if she wanted them or not because she didn't say it but I bought them for Myself and I would have never known about them if it wasn't for My Auntie Wanda
What else did she like
Her favorite Dog Breed was Collies...she LOVED Collies...that's the ONLY Dog Breed she'd EVER HAVE & WANT! She loved Lassie, Raggedy Ann and Andy, Walker: Texas Ranger, Dog the Bounty Hunter and the TV show Monk. She loved Sierra Mist. She loved her Game Boys, regular & color. Sometimes I'd want to play her Donkey Kong
So I miss doing all that and talking to her. When it was My Mom's Birthday, Christmas, My Grandma's Birthday, My Birthday and of course her own it's always bitter sweet that she's never walking out of her house, walking down the sidewalk Me watching out for her coming over for these special days. I always think about this and always will. This is a pic collage that I made of her with My Grandma MiMi & Myself
Happy Birthday to you My Auntie Wanda, I miss & love you