Idiot Savant wrote:If she does, then I get a turn....
This, pretty much. Right?
Bear in mind that with this particular site and "service" there remains some context involved. Membership doesn't necessarily mean a physical affair has/is taking place. The parties involved can be just engaging in cyber-sex or just playing one another for attention and not actually meeting up. That is actually really common with ALL on-line dating/relationship services.
The thing that makes Ashley Madison a splashier deal is that they advertise their service as being to arrange for affairs, so that adds to the lurid nature of this thing.
But seriously, anyone who signed up for that thing, with the intent to cheat and got found out......serves them right. If they thought their secret was safe with a service they CANNOT control..........boy, that is the height of stupidity and naivete.